“Happy is he that condemneth not himself in that thing which he alloweth” (Romans 14:22).

That part of the verse leaves me scratching my head.

Let me check two or three other versions to see if they help me out . . . .

Hmmm. After checking two other versions, I checked Strong’s and learned that alloweth isn’t talking about permissiveness (that is, having a careless, “anything goes” attitude).

Rather, it has the idea of proving — examining and testing things with discernment. Notice two other verses that use different English words for the same Greek word. (I’ll underline them.)

Prove all things; hold fast that which is good” (1 Thessalonians 5:21).

“Beloved, believe not every spirit, but try the spirits whether they are of God: because many false prophets are gone out into the world” (1 John 4:1).

Well, anyway. Here’s my rendition of the Romans 14 sentence:

“Blessed is he who does not judge and shame himself by that which approves.”

In other words, may you see as God sees — clearly and correctly.

“That ye may approve things that are excellent; that ye may be sincere and without offence till the day of Christ” (Philippians 1:10).

Between me and at least three other brothers in our church there exists a chasm. This chasm has been dug by some practical, philosophical, and/or theological differences.

Despite our oneness on a whole host of other issues, the differences strain our relationships.

What if God inspired someone to deliver us a message? And what if we could agree on the divine origin of the message? And what if the message were along the lines of the one the Apostle Paul delivered in Philippians 4:2?

“I beseech Euodias, and beseech Syntyche, that they be of the same mind in the Lord.”

I wonder how in the world I/we would go about obeying the message.

God wasn’t appealing to Euodias and Syntyche to merely get along. “Can’t you please get along?” is far below “Be of the same mind in the Lord.”

Maybe verse one is intended as a lead-in to verse two.

“Therefore, my brethren dearly beloved and longed for, my joy and crown, so stand fast in the Lord, my dearly beloved.”

“Mark, have that same mind toward those other brothers.”

Oh my!